What do psychologists say about online dating radioactive dating worksheet answers

Getty Images By Amanda Gardner MONDAY, February 6, 2012 (Health.com) — Thanks to the proliferation of online dating, would-be couples are now almost as likely to meet via email or a virtual "wink" as they are through friends and family.

In 1992, when the Internet was still in its infancy, less than 1% of Americans met their partners through personal ads or matchmaking services.

By 2009, 22% of heterosexual couples and 61% of same-sex couples reported meeting online, one survey found.

Single people have more options than ever before, as websites such as and e Harmony have dramatically widened the pool of potential dating partners. According to a new review of online dating written by a team of psychologists from around the country, dating websites may warp a person's outlook and expectations in ways that can actually lower the chances of building a successful relationship."Online dating is great.

It allows people access to potential partners they otherwise would not have," says Eli J. D., the lead author of the new review, which was commissioned by the Association for Psychological Science and will appear in the February issue of the journal One of the weaknesses of online dating is an overreliance on "profiles," the researchers say.

Although most dating websites feature photos and detailed, searchable profiles covering everything from personality traits to likes and dislikes, this information isn't necessarily useful in identifying a partner, Finkel and his coauthors write.

That's partly because daters don't always know what they want in a mate—even though they generally think they do.

Studies suggest that people often lack insight into what attracts them to others (and why), and therefore the characteristics they seek out in an online profile may be very different from those that will create a connection in person, the review notes."Pretty much all of online dating works through profiles," says Finkel, an associate professor of social psychology at Northwestern University, in Evanston, Ill.

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" The abundance of profiles online also may make daters too picky and judgmental, the authors say.

The sheer number of options can be overwhelming, and the ease with which people can sift through profiles—and click on to the next one—may lead them to "objectify" potential partners and compare them like so many pairs of shoes."Online dating creates a shopping mentality, and that is probably not a particularly good way to go about choosing a mate," says Harry Reis, Ph.

D., one of the review's authors and a professor of psychology at the University of Rochester, in Rochester, N. The shopping mindset may be efficient online, but when carried into face-to-face interactions it can make daters overly critical and discourage "fluid, spontaneous interaction" in what is already a charged and potentially awkward situation, Reis and his coauthors write.

Next page: Email some—but don't go overboard Communicating via email or instant message before meeting in person doesn't always cure this problem.

Some online communication is a good thing, the researchers say, but too much of it can skew expectations and ultimately sabotage a match.

People tend to read too much into emails and other online conversations, which increases the potential for misunderstandings and disappointment, they point out.

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