There are eighty-bajillion spanking blogs out there, and 99% are written by someone who is "out" as a spanko...
this one is about someone who is not out but is a spanko in secret.
You could pay a premium for the ability to watch the movies, but I never did.
I have tons of movies downloaded over the years and just never cared about what they had on there enough to do so.
Never had much luck with their personal ads either, but did make some nice acquaintances, and the chatroom there is probably the best for spanking chat (and has been for a long time).
I liked to be able to chat with someone and be able to look up their profile. You could click on a link and see who had viewed your profile, which was pretty cool.
It could be a way of "flirting" without sending gay-ass "winks" to each other.
Secret Spanko tip: If you're on one of these sites, it is (or was) possible to submit a profile pic that conveys (conveyed) lots of information without revealing your identity.